SDARA Melaka Monthly Breakfast 29th April 2012

Alhamdulillah.

This morning we had our usual monthly gathering over breakfast at Nangis Kitchen. This has been our monthly affair since February 2007 at the suggestion from Sdara Hj Jalil Morah.

Almost in every of our monthly breakfast, we would have sdarians coming for the very first time. Today was no exception. We were privileged to play host to sdaras Hamzah Abu Hassan, fiver 75 and Najib Wahab, fiver 81. Both of them happened to be in Melaka and decided to converge at Nangis for their breakfast. It was always exciting to have the presence of sdara, near and far, in Melaka.

Sdara Hasmady had to cut short his breakfast as his attendance is required for SDARA Monthly Golf Tournament. We wished him good bye and good luck with a special request to come back with the trophy.

Talking about SDARA Monthly Golf Tournament, Datuk Hj Azhar Wahab also participated in the tournament and had to miss our breakfast yet again. And I wonder what happen to sdara Hazudin Hashim?

Below are some pictures taken during our session.

As we started our breakfast.

Mohd Hisham Tamby

Abd Haris Ali and Zairi Zainal Abidin

Hj Muhammad Abdullah and Hamzah Abu Hassan

I wonder what Hj Muhammad was talking to Hj Azutdin, while Abd Halim was busy scrolling his handphone.

Tajuddin, Khodri, Halim and Hj Ninggal

Mohd Shuib Mohd Jadi

Najib Wahab and his batch mate, Zairi Zainal Abidin

As one by one left our session.

Hj Yaacob Sharif, herbal expert and Ali Aman. Peace YO........

Ali Aman and Khairi Anuar Baduk

The Chef making his rounds to mingle with fellow sdarians.

Those in attendance were:

1. Abdul Haris Ali ++, 82
2. Zairi Zainal Abidin +, 81
3. Tajudin 77
4. Ahmad Khodri 96
5. Abdul Halim Yunus F6 82/83
6. Hj Ninggal 63
7. Hj Azutdin 64
8. Hasmady Majid 80
9. Hamzah Abu Hassan 75
10. Hj Muhammad Abdullah 68
11. Mohd Hisham Tamby 85
12. Kamaludin Niat 80
13. Mohd Shuib Mohd Jadi 80
14. Ali Aman 79
15. Khairi Anuar Baduk 82
16. Najib Wahab 81
17. Hj Yaacob Sharif 65
18. Shamsul Ariffin 84
19. Rosman ++, 84


Absentees with prior consent:

1. Datuk Hj Azhar Wahab, grass cutting at Golf Club
2. Hj Azhar Ismaun, unforseen circumstances
3. Hj Halim Sohod

Poligami

Semasa aku hadiri kurusus kahwin pada tahun 1998, aku adalah bakal pengantin lelaki yang paling tua. Yang lain-lain tu dalam lingkungan umur 23 tahun dan ke bawah. Yang perempuan pun dalam lingkungan umur yang sama. Kebanyakan mereka datang berpasangan dan duduk bersebelahan sehinggalah diarahkan untuk duduk berasingan.

Aku paling banyak tanya soalan pasal perkahwinan, tugas dan tanggungjawab suami dan isteri. Salah satu soalan yang aku tanya ustazah yang memberi kuliah ialah mengenai poligami.

Ustazah tersebut menjawab dengan tertib dan sesekali jawapan beliau membuatkan kami ketawa. Dalam banyak-banyak isu yang dikongsi, aku tertarik dengan satu penjelasan yang dikongsi ustazah tersebut.

Islam inginkan umat yang ramai. Nabi Muhammad suka jika umatnya mempunyai anak yang ramai. Seorang ibu memerlukan 9 bulan untuk melahirkan seorang anak, dua bulan proses pemulihan sebelum mengandung semula. Itu pun jika mengandung.

Islam menawarkan alternatif, iaitu poligami. Jika seorang lelaki ada dua isteri, mungkin setiap tahun beliau akan mempunyai sekurang-kurangnya seorang anak dari dua ibu berbeza. Maksudnya, dalam tempoh sepuluh tahun, lelaki tersebut berkemungkinan mempunyai 10 orang anak.

Bayangkan jika ada 4 isteri? Mungkin lebih ramai anak, umat Islam, yang akan dilahirkan.

Bila isteri ramai, timing pun nak kena betul jugak ya. Jangan semua isteri bersalin pada waktu yang sama. Pening kepala dibuatnya.

Sorry! I was young.

I was reacting because you were not responding.

I was an idealistic person and I couldn't accept fallacies.

I craved for attention and would do anything to get it.

I saw things in black and white, hence either yes or no, right or wrong. No buts. I hate buts.

Rules were obstacles in life.

Dislike dos and don'ts

I believed in equality without sacrificing fairness.

I knew my rights and I wanted what is mine.

My parents had no clue about current issue.

My peers understood me better.

I only respect those who respect me.

I adore those who can satiate my cravings.

I lived for today, tomorrow and weekends.

I believed what I read.

I followed my heart.

Never needed anyone.

Everyone was wrong.

No one understood me.

I had no regrets.

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How about you?
All of the above?
Any exceptions?
Nothing has changed?

88-year-old lady.

This morning, from inside Ambank, I watched an old lady walking with the walking stick. Slowly she crossed over to this side and I decided to move out from the bank just to look where she was heading. I noticed that she was nearing the kerb and I quickly moved behind her, just in case she needed help. She noticed me standing behind her. She turned around and said,

'young man, I am okay. Thank you though for your concern"

I just smiled and nodded in acknowledgement.

'how old are you?'

I said I'll be 45 before the month ends.

'I know Malays are very good in taking care of their parents. Are your parents still around?'

I said yes and she asked 'are you taking care of them?'

I replied we all are.

'good... good.. your parents are very lucky because their children are taking care of them'

Auntie, may I know your age?

'I am already 88'

Where are you heading to?

'The bank officer called me this morning asking me to sign a few things'

Before we parted she told me to spend more time with my parents while they are still around.

Motivasi untuk Akmal (MSSM Boling Ten Pin)

Langkah-langkah Pelarasan dan motivasi boling sempena MSSM Boling Ten Pin di Pulau Pinang, 

15-22 April 2012. 

Motivasi ini adalah bagi setiap game yang Akmal akan main di MSSM.

Muhammad Akmal memenangi High Game di Kejohanan Boling Ten pin MSSNM.

Setiap game bermula dengan RM10.00

STRIKE

Satu strike (X), +RM 10.00

Turkey XXX, +RM 40.00

4 XXXX, +RM 60.00

5 XXXXX, +RM 80.00

Double Turkey, +RM120.00

SPARE

Satu spare (/) , +RM 5.00

SPLIT

Satu split (S), -RM 10.00

S dan /, +RM 10.00

OPEN FRAME

Open frame, -RM 10.00

LONGKANG

Sekali (-), -RM 5.00. 

Double (--), -RM10.00. 

Triple , -RM 15.00

- dan / , +RM 30.00

JATUHAN PIN SETIAP GAME

Bawah 142, -RM30.00

143 - 160, +RM 15.00

161 - 185, +RM 30.00
186 - 199, +RM 50.00
200 - 220, +RM 70.00
221 ke atas, +RM100

Akmal dan rombongan akan menjalani penyesuaian gelanggang dari 5-7 April di Premium Lane.
Tolong doakan kejayaan anak saya, Muhammad Akmal Rosman di Kejohanan Boling Ten Pin MSSM Bawah 12 tahun di Premium Lane dari 15-22 April 2012.
Saya dahulukan ucapan jutaan terima kasih kerana mendoakan kejayaan anak saya, insyaALLAH.