What rights do you have.......

Sometimes in the past either we were at the receiving end or at the giving end of a certain issue at hand. It is always easy to be at the giving end when you will not be held accountable for what you say or do. It is always easy to find one's fault and start making judgement. It is always easy to be at the giving end.

When you are at the receiving end, sometimes what was said, shattered your confidence. The words that you heard over the years will have an adverse effects on your beliefs system. Let me ask you one simple question.

HOW MANY TIMES IN A DAY YOU HAVE SOMEONE MOTIVATING YOU?

Chances are that zero. Let me ask you another question.

HOW MANY TIMES IN A DAY YOU HAVE SOMEONE TRYING TO UNDERMINE YOUR CAPABILITIES?

Your answer is as good as mine.

You see, some might think that they know you. They think that they know what's going on. So they say something with that assumptions. The way they say it, their facial expression and gestures, wow! They think that their say is the final say that you  must oblige. You are not supposed to be better!

So, what rights do you have to question the capabilities of another person? What rights do you have to impose your inadequacies on others? What rights do you have to tell others what they can or can not do to improve their life?

If you can't say something good, shut up!

But if you still want to say it because you like to hear yourself talking, say it politely. Do not impose. Do Not patronise. Do not presume.

Be an energy giver, and stop being an energy sucker. Will ya?